A new article from Bustle.com is helping readers give the best wedding speech ever.  Giving a speech at a wedding can be one of the most nerve-wrecking experiences of your life, especially if it’s for your very own sister.  It’s important to express how much you love her, but you want to be able to do it in a confident and tasteful way, so she doesn’t become embarrassed.

Here’s a few pointers to consider when giving your speech…

1. Try tackling the stage fright
2. Leave all of your strange sisterly grudges at the door
3. Avoid the phrase “remember when?”
4. Don’t forget to say something nice about the groom!
5. Think about what your sis’ means to you
6. Don’t say cliche’s
7. Make legible notes
8. Don’t talk too much about yourself

For the final tip, click here.