Editor’s Note: The views expressed in the following column are those of the writer only and do not necessarily represent the views of The Collegian or its editorial board.
Mixing religion and sex sounds about as good of an idea as mixing nails into cereal. For centuries, most religions have offered a taboo image on sex and sexual education. Religious teachings effects how people think about and treat sex.
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Many religions, from Catholicism to Islam, have made their followers feel guilt and shame for participating in sex outside of marriage and procreation. For instance, Christianity promotes premarital sex as a sin (Holy Bible, New International Version, Hebrews 13:4).
The Washington Post conducted a survey on a pool of American Christians on sexual ethics which found 10% are unsure about whether premarital sex will ever be accepted in religion.
Religious expectations and self-decisions are an important distinction.
Times are changing. As many as 80% of unmarried evangelical young adults have had sex according to Relevant, a Christian magazine. Over 60% of Muslims reported premarital sex too, as well as over 80% of Buddhists reporting premarital sex according to the American Sociology Association.
By all means, follow your religion. I simply mean to convey that those who may have grown up with a religious family or have practiced religion most of their life shouldn’t feel as if they are straying from their beliefs or be shunned and unloved because of their decision on what they choose to do with their bodies.
Shay Rego can be reached at letters@collegian.com or on Twitter at @shay_rego.